I really feel strongly that smooth, complication free (or minimal complication) births require commitment and education of mothers and their families. A woman of childbearing age must truely evaluate her mental, emotional and physical state of health. Pregnancy is a great time to acknowledge what isn’t working in your life, to find out what is keeping you nourished and what changes you want to make as you start your new life with a new (or first) child.
If this is your first pregnancy, there’s really no way to “prepare”. Many reaction you have to life situation begin to emanate from the growing baby inside and therefore become more real and possibly intense. This, however, can allow the outward effects to manifest quickly and YOU to become more a present and effective parent. This goes for dad-to-be just as much as for mommy-to-be.
Labor and birth is work. Your body can do it, but sometimes your mind tells you otherwise. Spending some time, 15 minutes to an hour, each day relaxing and feeling the changes in your body and your baby will help you to be aware of the labor and birth process when the time comes.
Learning body awareness techniques, taking a prenatal yoga class or practicing a daily meditation are effective methods of transitioning into labor with less perceived pain and fulfillment of your birth vision. Many childbirth techniques, including the Bradley Method® , Birthing from Within, and HypnoBirthing are helping women give birth with success and enjoyment. Whether or not your strictly follow there practices, being able to mentally understand what is going on in labor can relieve fears and help reduce anxiety. Reading about positive and normal vaginal births can reassure many women that they are capable of birthing and our bodies are equipped for almost any birth situation.
Other ways to prepare for birth is to eat a well rounded whole foods diet. Using herbal teas to get added nutrition as directed by your health care provider is a great way to prevent illness during pregnancy.
Start as early as possible preparing your body for growing a baby. If you are of child bearing age, adding a high-quality multi-vitamin that has folate and B vitamins is invaluable. Calcium and vitamin C can also improve pregnancy related changes in your body.
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